5 Things LGBTQ+ Couples Should Ask Their Wedding Planner 🌈💍

5 Things LGBTQ+ Couples Should Ask Their Wedding Planner 🌈💍

Your wedding planning is as legendary as your love story—brave, joyful, and swooningly true to you. And if you're an LGBTQ+ couple, a planner who gets you is a must. At Bonvera Weddings, we believe in love is love, and your wedding should be one giant hug swathed in confetti. Don't shout "You're hired!" yet—here are 5 great, useful questions to ask your wedding planner:


1. "Have you planned weddings for LGBTQ+ couples?"

Come on—you want someone who understands your narrative and respects your journey. This one asks you if your planner has experience being welcoming (and not just applying a rainbow sticker to everything in June).

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2. "Are your vendors queer-friendly?"

From photographers to priests (or no priest, as it were), your vendors must be your vibe. Your planner must be able to hook you up with professionals who are warm, friendly, and 100% game on celebrating your love.


3. "Can we break a few traditions?"

Since two brides can just, just have a double baraat. Or two grooms can BOTH walk down the aisle. Want a drag brunch instead of a mehendi? Do it! Make sure your planner isn't just okay with it—they're excited about it.

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4. "How can you make our wedding feel like us?"

Cookie-cutter weddings? No way. Ask how they'll assist you in making your tale sparkle in every small detail—be that custom vows, rainbow cocktails, or soundtracks yelling your love tale.


5. "Will you be our biggest hype squad?"

Your planner aren't just your calendar—they're your behind-the-scenes bff. You need someone to hypes for your love with the same fervor you have on the dance floor.

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Final Thought Your wedding day must be safe, magical, and unapologetically yours. Ask the right questions, bring on the right team, and let love shine. At Bonvera Weddings, we don't simply plan weddings—we produce joy, connection, and love stories worthy of the brightest spotlight. ?

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Written by Team Bonvera on 7/10/2025